Event details

Thursday, October 15th

The Wedding Day

Join us for the ceremony, a long celebratory lunch, and a late night of music, fire pits and s'mores.

1:30 PM until 10:30 PM

The Pridwin

81 Shore Road, Shelter Island, New York

Attire

Cocktail Attire

Ties optional for the gentlemen — and bring a layer for the fire pits after dark.

  1. 1:30 PM

    Welcome drink

  2. 2:00 PM

    Ceremony on the lawn

  3. 2:30 PM

    Cocktails — roaming oysters, caviar and champagne

  4. 3:30 PM

    A long celebratory lunch on the Terrace

  5. 6:00 PM

    Golden hour cocktails & cake cutting

  6. 7:30 PM

    Music, fire pits & s'mores

  7. 10:30 PM

    Officially, the party ends

    Unofficially, the bar stays open as long as we do.

Golden-hour light over the lawn and terrace at The Pridwin, Shelter IslandAerial view of The Pridwin hotel and its docks on Shelter Island

Friday, October 16th

An Autumn Evening at the Farm

Join us for music, casual bites, drinks, and good company!

4:30 PM until 8:00 PM

Sagaponack Farm Distillery

369 Sagg Road, Sagaponack, New York

Attire

Fall Festive

Upscale but on a farm — relaxed, classic and celebratory.

  1. 4:30 – 8:00 PM

    An Autumn Evening at the Farm

    Music, casual bites, and drinks at the distillery.

  2. 8:30 PM onwards

    Onward to Talkhouse

    Optional — more music and more drinks.

A long table set for dinner in a farm field at golden hour
Vintage pickup truck tailgate laid out with drinks and bread in a fieldGuests under string lights and an open tent at the farm at blue hourGuests gathered around a bonfire at dusk

Around the weekend

Wednesday, October 14th
No formal plans, but we'll likely be enjoying pizza and wine on the terrace at The Pridwin.
Saturday, October 17th
For those extending through the weekend, we'll likely put together some fall activities.
A vintage convertible driving through an arched estate entrance lined with trees